ESCAPE STORIES - March-April 2007

Escape Stories
What's the best 'use' of your life?
Issue 3 Volume 4 March-April 2007

 

in this issue

 

Escape Resources

Get Weekly Inspiration

What's the best 'use' of your time?

Summer 2007 Events

Get A Coach to Help You Escape!

What I Do


 

 

Escape Resources

Careerstorm Navigator

This is a new online career development tool that I've been piloting with a few clients and groups. It's used globally and the earlier version was used by Monster. The feedback so far has been great. To find out more how it could help you, download a brochure or give me a call (+44 (0)771 374 0926)

Read of the Month:


Why Work is Weird

by Jerry Connor and Lee Sears

This is a fab fab fab book! It looks at what are all the various ways we 'lose ourselves' in various types of organisations, and what are the antidotes we can 'use' and what are the environments we would thrive in to make sure that we bring our full selves to work! Well worth a read!

Escape Guide

Tired of trying to fit in to a job or career that isn't suitable for you?

For those who may not have yet downloaded your copy, I'm happy to finally offer all of you the brand new Escape Guide, which consists of 7 steps to help you 'action your escape' to work that fits who you are and what you want to do!

Download your own free copy here



 

  Hello!

It's been a few months and apologies for the silence. The spring has brought with it some amazing courses and a few great projects that have kept me busy and away from my newsletter. All good stuff though, and all supporting me in figuring out even better ways to support you in living your best life and working your best contribution!

One of the highlights of the spring has been piloting a new online career development tool as part of my coaching practice. The Careerstorm Navigator is a great tool of self discovery, and if you've felt that maybe coaching on its own is a bit too much (either financially, time or other wise), have a look at how the tool could benefit you. Give me a call (+44 (0)771 374 0926 or email me (coach@satukreula.com) if you would like to discuss this further!

In this issue, in addition to links to my most recent blogs and the usual resources on the side panel, I am very happy to be able to bring you the inspiring career change tale of Richard Alderson, the founder of Careershifters.

Last but not least, I have another very reduced priced 30 minute phone coaching session available on Monday, May 21st at 3 pm. This is a session that is observed by supervisory and is part of my own continued professional development as a professional coach. If you are interested in this one, or would like to do one but can't do this particular time/date (I have these monthly), please email me (coach@satukreula.com) as soon as possible!

Quote of the month (aka Food for Thought):
"The tragedy of life is not death, rather, it is what we allow to die within us while we live." - Norman Cousins


Warm wishes,
Satu :)

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  • Get Weekly Inspiration
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    Check out my most recent contributions on my blog for additional motivation and insights to your escape journey.

    * Be A Pioneer
    I bet you can come up with loads of reasons why your dream job is not possible or realistic, right? I've heard quite a few of these just in the past week alone. Yes, but it doesn't pay anything. Yes, but I'm too old. Yes, but it's not a proper conventional job. Yes, but what would my friends think of me. Yes, but (fill in the blanks)...

    * Is the problem your job, your boss... or you?
    Have you had a lot of jobs? Do you feel that no matter where you go, you don't seem to have a good boss? Or that there's too much politics? Or that you just don't seem to be treated like you'd like to be treated? If so, then perhaps it's time to take a look in the mirror...

    * Someone else's opinion of you does not have to become your reality
    "You are not good at maths"... "You should study sciences"... "You've got so much potential, why waste it in X?"... "You should get a real job."

    Most of us at some point in our lives have heard someone else's opinion of our capabilities, skills, possibilities. Take a moment to reflect on this. What are all the various opinions that you have heard about what you are good at, or what you should develop, or what you should do with your life.

       
     
  • What's the best 'use' of your time?
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    Richard

    You may have noticed that the "Careershifters" logo has had a more regular presence on the Escape Stories newsletters lately. I've linked up with them as I think it's a great group of people who've gone through career changes themselves and want to offer a one-stop shop for other career changers. So this month I want to introduce to you Richard Alderson, the guy behind it all...

    How would you describe yourself? Who is Richard?
    If I have one overriding passion, it's about creating things. Also, anything that involves making a difference in the world, foreign cultures, technology and good food gets me buzzing. On the less positive side, I'm often a rebel for the sake of it, I'm compulsive and I'm a never-ending perfectionist.

    What are you working on now?
    I've got three big projects on the boil, with several others brewing for the future consumption...

    First of all, I'm setting up a new charity in Mumbai in India. The idea to is help individuals with ideas that can tackle some of the social problems around them bring their dreams into reality. It's based on the model used by an amazing charity in the UK called UnLtd, where I've been working for the past three years. We're in fundraising mode at the moment, so I'm spending a lot of time between the UK and India.

    Secondly, I run a social enterprise taking leaders and change makers from all over the world to learn from some of India's most exceptional social entrepreneurs and NGOs.

    Thirdly, I'm developing Careershifters, which I'm sure most of your readers will have come across. This started off as an idea in my head three years ago and has blossomed into an incredible community of people passionate about helping others get excited about their work.

    For the future, I'm planning to start a whole bunch more of socially-focused businesses, including an incubator for social web projects, a retreat for social entrepreneurs in India, and a bunch of things I haven't yet dreamed up...

    What has been your journey to what you are doing now?
    It's been a winding journey but one where all the pieces of the puzzle finally feel like they're falling into place.

    At university, I avoided the corporate milk round like the plague. I had no desire to go straight into the "rat race" - or that's what I perceived it to be anyway. I wanted to see the world. More than that, to live and work in different countries.

    So, my first stop was Tanzania. I worked there for three months as an Environmental Assistant in the tropical rainforests in the north of the country. I lived in a bamboo hut, measured trees, counted butterflies, learnt some pigeon Swahili, caught some tropical diseases and loved every minute of it.

    From the simplicity of the forest, I went to the complex and fascinating country of Japan. I worked there as an English teacher for 1½ years, living between Osaka and Kobe in the west part of the country. I also pursued my long-standing interest in writing by becoming a journalist/editor for the biggest English language magazine in the west of Japan.

    Inspired by an American I met in Japan, I then went to India, with the aim of learning more about Hinduism, Buddhism, and yoga. I spent five weeks in the foothills of the Himalayas stretching my body into interesting shapes and learning about Hinduism, followed by a month in the east of India learning about Buddhism. I ended up volunteering as assistant to the head monk who was organising the Dalai Lama's teachings in the place I was staying.

    At the end of 1998, I returned to the UK and started to look for a "proper job". I was fascinated by possibilities of the internet, so I applied for a variety of technology-focused graduate schemes. I got offered three jobs: one at a large investment bank, one at IBM and one at a small cutting-edge web consultancy. The latter felt the most exciting, but my practical/rational side got the better of me and I ended up going for a more established blue-chip. And IBM won out over the investment bank because I wanted the variety of a consultancy role and was scared silly by the hours people work in the City.

    I spent the next four and a half years at IBM. Although the job satisfied some of my needs - stimulation (I worked with some very switched on people), variety (I worked on all kinds of projects) and international travel (I got to live in Holland and Dubai) - instinctively I knew it wasn't for me longer term.

    The moment of truth came one grey morning in early 2003 when I was at our offices in central London overlooking the Thames. I was there with my fellow team members reporting back on our various projects. Sitting there in our suits and ties, we were all trying to impress our boss (and each other) and to sound important about the, frankly, humdrum things we were doing. Suddenly it hit me: "This is all crap! We're all pretending to be something we're not. It's so fake." I felt physically sick, I felt drained. All the instinctual feelings I'd had previously came to the fore. I think what most scared me was reaching 60 and regretting not doing something I could truly be proud of with my life. I knew that at that moment that I had to get out of the company.

    From that day on, I lost all motivation to work. I'd go to my client site in a trance, I'd come home and wrap myself in my duvet. I knew this wasn't what I wanted to do, but also didn't have a clue what to do next. So for the next six months or so, I spiralled into a period of depression and frustration. During that time, I did everything I could think of to figure out what I could do next: I read every book on career change, talked to friends and family, went to meet a careers counsellor, used a life coach, searched the internet and went and "spied" on my friends in their jobs.

    I also looked at the people who really inspired me. Gandhi and Mandela came up on the list, but there were also people like Michael Young who'd set up the Open University in the UK and Tim Smitt who's behind the Eden Project. The common thread? These people were passionate about their work and were doing something that made a difference in the world.

    The eureka moment came in about July 2003 when I got introduced to the Chief Exec at UnLtd, a charity which, at the time, was 3-4 month old. It was a young, dynamic, un-voluntary sector like organisation, doing incredible work supporting social entrepreneurs - individuals who wanted to change the world in small or large ways. What was also particularly attractive was that there were a bunch of ex private sector consultants working for the charity using their business skills to help these entrepreneurs grow their projects. They were paid far less than they were in their old jobs, but were bouncing off the walls because they loved their work so much. Suddenly here was something that was totally exciting for me. So, I arranged a sabbatical from IBM, ditched my suit and started to do some volunteer work with them. That led to a full-time job offer in early 2004 to join their consultancy team, and then the easy decision to throw in the towel at IBM.

    Now, three years on, I'm entering the next phase in my life, continuing with UnLtd but in India, and developing a number of my own ideas. This is my road to becoming a full-on social entrepreneur, and it feels absolutely like where I'm meant to be.

    How are you feeling now?
    Never been happier. I'm totally in my groove and it's a wonderful feeling. I'm dog tired too, because you tend to work even harder at things you love! But it's a good tired feeling, if you know what I mean...

    Would you do anything differently?
    For sure. I'd have taken notice of what my heart was saying a lot longer ago. I'd have had more balls to quit my corporate job early and strike out on my own.

    What advice would you give to other people in similar situations as you were in?
    If you're unhappy in your work, see it as an incredible opportunity. The world is crying out for people to be passionate about what they do, and with the right mindset and effort, you CAN absolutely make a positive shift. Going through the process is also a hell of a valuable learning experience.

    Practical steps:
    - Look inside yourself first. For God's sake don't start from what your CV says about you or what your parents say you "should" be doing. Instead, really try to understand what's important to you in your life and what makes you tick. We're moving to an age where more and more things are possible, which is both scary and exciting. What do you want to make possible?
    - Connect with people who've made a successful shift. Their stories can be both inspiring and confidence building.
    - Get a support network (Editor's note: go to a Careershifters monthly event to meet likeminded people!)
    - Be patient. Change doesn't happen overnight. It's also almost always an emotional journey too. But it's worth the effort.
    - Realise that fear will almost certainly be your biggest barrier. Be aware of it, accept it, but don't let it stop you - find ways around it.
    - Most importantly: act! You can sit and think about it as much as you like, but the only way to really change is to take some steps forward. Sometimes it's only in taking action that you'll find what your purpose and ideal work really is.

      To learn more about Careershifters
     
  • Summer 2007 Events
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    Reignite Your Career: Careershifters Evening

    Wednesday, May 23, 2007
    Wednesday, June 20, 2007
    Wednesday, July 25, 2007
    6-8.30 pm
    Central London venue (near Angel tube)

    Are you thinking about making a career change? Have you started to make a change, but still feel that things aren't moving as quickly or easily as they should be? This London-based evening event is designed for you.

    To register and for more information, click here

       
     
  • Get A Coach to Help You Escape!
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    Make 2007 the year that you really do something about getting yourself out of a job that doesn't quite feel right and into one that you want to jump out of bed for!

    Before coaching I was lost and felt isolated. Everyone around me seemed to have jobs they liked or atleast were good at. I felt that I was stuck in a career that I had studied so hard to do yet felt bored and hopeless. My career was stripping me of all my confidence and self worth.

    My friend sent me a website link and that is how I got in touch with Satu. She has been brilliant with me as she's made see that my skills, strengths and passions lie elsewhere and that it is never too late to make that leap. She has not only helped me get on the right path but has made me into a more positive person!- On the Right Path, UK

    If you are wanting to escape, but are feeling stuck or like you could use a helpful non-judgemental hand, email me for a f*ree consultation to find out what coaching is and how it could help you in your particular situation.

       
     
  • What I Do
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    You know how some successful professionals stay in jobs that don't fulfill them waiting for the perfect job to land on their lap, or to have enough money to leave and do what they 'really' want to do

    Which means that they have some good days, but most days they aren't living or working to their potential, and start being more and more unhappy with their work, which then reflect on their lives

    What I do is help these people create an escape plan doing what they want (not what they feel other people want)

    Which means they have clarity about the type of work that would bring them the satisfaction they crave for - and a plan to get the work too!

    The benefit of this is not only increased job satisfaction, but a sense of focus, direction and purpose - and overall happiness with the lives they are leading

      If you'd like to know more, contact me for a f*ree consultation