ESCAPE STORIES - July/August 2006

Escape Stories
No Experience Is A Wasted One
Issue 6, Volume 3 July-August 2006

 

in this issue

 

Escape Resources

No Experience Is A Wasted One

Get Your Career Into Gear

Excel at CVs & Interviews

What I Do


 

 

Escape Resources

Read of the Month:


Callings: Finding and Following An Authentic Life
by Gregg Levoy

My very first email signature as a 'career coach' is a quote that came from this book:

"Ultimately, none of us want bumper stickers on our cars that say, "I'd rather be sailing," or "The worst day fishing is the better than the best day working." We want to do what we'd rather be doing. We want our lives - and the work to which we are devoting our lives - to catch fire and burn blue, not smoulder. We want to feel called, not just driven. We want work to be a channel through which we express our passion and vitality, not a chin- up bar we have to pull ourselves to every morning. And we want success to be a way we feel, not just a thing we achieve."

I've been reminded about this book a few times in the last month, and have reconnected with it. I think the quote captures the essence of it perfectly. If you are seeking inspirational summer reading that is sure to get your brain cells working on what your true calling is - this is the book!

ESCAPE GUIDE

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  Hello!

Hope you have been enjoying and making the most of your summer (or winter for those of you on the southern hemisphere)!

Welcome to summer issue of Escape Stories! I first came across our escapee, Caroline Moroz, about 18 months ago when I was searching for good stories to share with you. I think you'll agree that hers is a journey not often taken, yet one that has brought her and her clients loads of joy and inspiration.

Her message, that no experience is a wasted one, is one that I fully agree with. What step are you afraid to take for fear that it won't be the right one or it might turn out to be a waste of time? How could you turn these fears into positive learning experiences to take you further on your escape journey?

I'm off for August, but I'll be back again in September with a new collection of stories to end 2006 with. I'm always on the lookout for interesting tales to share with you, so if you know of any great escapes (or are one yourself), please email me!

Quote of the month (aka Food for Thought):
"Dreams are renewable. No matter what our age or condition, there are still untapped possibilities within us and new beauty waiting to be born." - Dale E. Turner

Happy August!
Satu :)

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  • No Experience Is A Wasted One
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    How would you describe yourself? Who is Caroline?
    I’m someone who tries to see different approaches to life and who helps others see these in their own lives. I want to help people to see what could be possible for them.

    In addition to that, I’m a self-employed business woman, and I feel very lucky to be able to do what I love. I’m so much more relaxed than when I was stuck on the corporate hamster wheel.

    What are you working on now?
    My work focuses on empowering people to get the most out of their lives through astrology. Astrology was mainstream up to the 17th century, but linear and scientific thinking took over during the renaissance, and astrology was rejected as non- rational and non-scientific. But as society is starting to shift again, we’re realising that we are actually part of a bigger whole, and not a separate entity from the rest of the Universe, as has been the predominant thinking in the last few centuries. There’s been a bigger shift towards different ways of seeing the human condition, and a lot more people are seeking enlightenment through astrology and other related fields.

    I most commonly work with individuals. My client base varies immensely. People might choose to look me up, for example, when they’re at a crossroads. They call because they need to know when the difficulties they’re having will end and they also want to get some guidance on where to go next. I also have frequent consultations with very self-aware people who just want to confirm that they are on the right path and making the most of their potential.

    In my work I begin with a new client by giving an initial consultation, where we explore the client’s character and personality through their birth chart. We also have a look at what the “weather” around them is like, which is the forecast part of the consultation. This doesn’t mean that I’ll be telling them what will happen next in their lives however: each individual has free will and can choose themselves where they go next. It’s just that if it’s going to be raining, it’s nice to know you’ll need an umbrella!

    I also offer follow-up sessions. These can include working on affirmations according to the birth chart, or using the power of the new moon to set goals. I also offer yearly forecasts, or work in any number of other areas, such as relationship consultations, children’s charts and also astro- locality work. This tells you where in the world certain features of your birth chart will be more prominent, where you might have most success or find love, and which places to avoid!

    My clients are predominantly female, probably because women are generally more in touch with their emotions and inner life. I don’t get many male clients, though it sometimes does happen, which is a treat! The age can be quite varied, anything from early 30s to late 50s, from all walks of life. Astrology is very broad in terms of who you can reach and anyone can benefit from this type of work.

    In addition to my client work, I’m also putting together a series of workshops, which will kick off in August. Last year, I approached a summer school which runs adult education programmes to get into this year’s syllabus, and I’ll be running a workshop for them entitled ‘Introduction to your Birth Chart’. I’m very excited about this as it’s a new departure for me.

    I also have a radio slot every Thursday on BBC Radio Leicester. It’s a very good way to get the message across about what astrology is and to show people how it could help them in their lives.

    What has been your journey to what you are doing now?
    I had a standard, background in sales and marketing. I disliked the way that the corporate world put profits ahead of people, and I also didn’t like the feeling that other people were directing my journey.

    For my 30th birthday, my partner’s family got me my birth chart analysed as a gift, which really sparked my interest. We moved abroad for a while, and when we came back, I went back to my old employers, but I realised then that there was not enough to go forward with anymore. It felt strange to leave a well-paid ‘respectable’ job, but I felt that it was time to start taking astrology more seriously.

    I left full-time employment in September 2000. This was followed by two years of intensive study in astrology. I started my own practice in early 2003. Working for yourself is as much a process of self- discovery as it is developing a business. You learn so much through talking to other people and reflecting on what you are going through yourself. So it feels like a two-way process. Yes, I’m giving my clients advice and encouragement, but they also teach me things I often don’t expect. It’s extremely rewarding.

    I’ve also recently moved, so am continuing to build on my client base from a new location. I’ve started giving phone consultations, which work really well and mean you’re not limited by geographic location.

    I have clients all over the UK, and even as far as South Africa, which is great.

    Did you have any voices of doubt along the way?
    You’re bound to have voices of doubt when you make such an enormous change t your life. But you’ve got to start building new ways of living and thinking. A question I often ask my clients when they are at a crossroads is: ‘what’s the worst thing that can happen if you take the plunge? And so what if it did, would it be the end of the world or would you pick yourself up and start again having learnt something?’

    Yes, I had doubts about the reduced income, and whether I was doing the right thing. My partner was very supportive, and I kept on thinking what’s really important here? What truly matters? What’s better? To have tried to do something that feels right or to live wondering “what if...”? Yes, my friends were fairly surprised with my decision, they thought it sounded a bit whacky, but they were supportive as they knew I was single minded once I decided something.

    I’ve had some fantastic experiences, mainly because I’ve tried to keep an open mind. I’ve been philosophical about what I’ve come across. No experience is a wasted one, as long as you move forward with whatever it gives you. You start finding out more about yourself, and the old saying is true: ‘what doesn’t kill you makes stronger’.

    How are you feeling now?
    Very optimistic for what’s coming up. I’ve achieved a lot already. I’ve carried on with my studies, and have recently got my Diploma in Medieval Astrology, which gives me another set of skills to add to my toolkit. I produce a monthly newsletter, where I write about astrology using current events to demonstrate it’s validity in all of our lives. The radio stuff is also exciting, and very rewarding.

    I want to carry on developing my business, though I’m not really a long-term planner. I tend to be more open to opportunities that come up. For example, the radio gig came completely by chance. I have an entry in the local Yellow Pages, and that’s how they found me. They were looking for an astrologer for a Valentine’s Day special, got in touch, and afterwards decided to make it a weekly thing!

    Would you do anything differently?
    That’s a very difficult question to answer. I think in life you’ve got to just move forward with what you have. So no, I actually think I wouldn’t. This has been such a great learning experience for me as an individual, it’s affected all parts of my life.

    One of the hardest things for me has been to learn to trust my gut feel and do things my own way with no outside support. I’ve also had to redefine how I view personal achievement, as I’d been conditioned by more conventional concepts of what that means (lots of money, status, material possessions, etc).

    And it’s also been strange to move from a 9 to 5 office environment to creating my own working pattern – when there isn’t anyone there you have to report to; it’s all about being self motivated. But that’s all been part of the fun – and like I said, I’ve learned so much about myself in the process.

    What advice would you give to other people in similar situations to the one you were in?
    • You can’t wait for things to change from the outside, you need to change things yourself
    • If you did take a risk and change things, what’s the worst thing that could happen? The flipside is if you don’t take the plunge, you could be missing out on new and potentially exciting experiences, going places you never thought possible. Wouldn’t it be a shame to risk losing that opportunity?
    • One of the biggest fears most of us have is losing the financial security that our jobs give us – but if you weigh being in a rut (and secure) against actually going out there and doing something that could bring you more satisfaction, as well as new, exciting experiences, playing it safe just doesn’t really add up!
    • Always use what comes along as a positive learning experience: if you do this you can only grow and benefit from life!

      Check out Caroline's work...
     
  • Get Your Career Into Gear
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    Not sure what your next step is but feeling like you're not getting very far reading books or trying to sort it out for yourself?

    Email me for a free consultation - even if coaching isn't the right thing for you, I'm happy to recommend resources and ideas that will help you move your escape journey in the right direction.

    "I found Satu by chance on the Internet following the termination of a regrettably expensive and ineffective coaching relationship early on in 2006. I was alert to the failings of the previous relationship and from the very beginning, Satu demonstrated that she was exactly what I was needing.

    In particular, there are several qualities which have turned me into an advocate for her coaching. She is absolutely clear about the boundaries and purpose of the relationship, which she helps you to define. She sticks resolutely to that purpose or checks with you prior to any deviation. She is very quick in getting you to the crux of the various issues that come up along the way, and correspondingly effective in helping you to put in place actions and solutions to resolve the issues.

    Overall my experience has been quite simply transformational, and although she reminds me that all the work required to completely change my career was done by me, I could not be where I am today without her help."
    - Justin Connor

       
     
  • Excel at CVs & Interviews
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    Thanks to Satu’s support I managed to complete a very successful CV. The content allowed me to come across just the way I wanted to, I had very good comments from recruiters and I've just started a new job that fits what I was looking for.
    – Maria, London, UK

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    "To get shortlisted in a competitive medical interview, we often have similar CV’s, and all know the common topics of discussion in the interview. The crucial factor is how we deliver that information, both in body language and tone of voice. This is where my session with Satu was invaluable. It gave me self awareness, which in turn gave me control over how I portrayed myself. This quiet confidence proved invaluable."
    - Owen Anderson - Specialist Registrar, Moorfields Eye Hospital, London

      Email Satu for more information
     
  • What I Do
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    You know how some successful professionals stay in jobs that don't fulfill them waiting for the perfect job to land on their lap, or to have enough money to leave and do what they 'really' want to do

    Which means that they have some good days, but most days they aren't living or working to their potential, and start being more and more unhappy with their work, which then reflect on their lives

    What I do is help these people create an escape plan doing what they want (not what they feel other people want)

    Which means they have clarity about the type of work that would bring them the satisfaction they crave for - and a plan to get the work too!

    The benefit of this is not only increased job satisfaction, but a sense of focus, direction and purpose - and overall happiness with the lives they are leading

      If you'd like to know more, contact me for a f*ree consultation
     
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