ESCAPE STORIES - December 2006

Escape Stories
You Have No Choice But To Try
Issue 8, Volume 3 December 2006

 

in this issue

 

Escape Resources

You Have No Choice But To Try

Seven Steps to Better Health

Spring 2007 Events

Get A Coach to Help You Escape!

What I Do


 

 

Escape Resources

Read My Weekly Blog!

I've started a weekly blog together with Careershifters - check it out!

Read of the Month:


30 Lies About Money
by Peter Koenig

Do you believe that your salary brings you security that you are afraid of leaving behind if you were to change your career? Peter Koenig's book could help you uncover what you project onto money - and how this might be preventing you from doing what you really love. A journey of discovery that could lead you down paths yet untravelled...

Escape Guide

Tired of trying to fit in to a job or career that isn't suitable for you?

For those who may not have yet downloaded your copy, I'm happy to finally offer all of you the brand new Escape Guide, which consists of 7 steps to help you 'action your escape' to work that fits who you are and what you want to do!

Download your own free copy here



 

  Hello!

I do hope this newsletter finds you happy and well, and looking forward to the the holidays. It's great to wind down for the year and reflect on what's been going on - and to use that energy to plan ahead. What are you most grateful for in 2006? What's your biggest priority for 2007? Knowing what's priority will definitely help you focus your efforts.

2006 has flown by for me. I was just reflecting with a friend that although loads has happened for both of us in all areas of life, it feels like the year had just really got started now that it's ending. I think we were both caught up in the busy-ness of everything. So one of my priorities for 2007 is to be 'in the present' more, and enjoy what's here, not constantly be planning for the future.

So let me get present to what's in store in this edition of Escape Stories. I have a great interview for you - Joseph Plampin, a musician with a great motto in life: "You have no choice but to try". In addition, I've teamed up with Careershifters - check out not only my weekly blog on career change related issues, but also the events we have scheduled for the spring (more information below).

Quote of the month (aka Food for Thought):
"Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy." - Dale Carnegie

I wish you and your loved ones a very happy holiday season and a great start to 2007!
Warm wishes,
Satu :)

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  • You Have No Choice But To Try
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    Joe

    I was having drinks with some old friends on the Tattershall Castle (a boat docked on the Thames near Embankment) a few months ago, and got to talking with a friend of a friend, Joe Plampin, who’s band had just gotten signed by a big record label. Finding out more about how he got into music, it didn’t take me long before I asked him: would you mind being interviewed for my newsletter? I’m sure you’ll see why...

    How would you describe yourself? Who is Joe?
    I’m someone who definitely believes that you should do what you want to do. Not to say I haven’t done stuff I haven’t liked. But I’m now focusing on doing what I really want to do. Yes, it feels like I have to fight for it sometimes, but I believe in what I’m doing and am ready to make the sacrifices this might require from me.

    But on another front, I’m friendly and sociable, a real people person. I love talking to people, and my previous work was customer-oriented, because I can pretty much talk to anyone.

    I have dreams, and I believe that I have no other choice but to try and make those dreams come true. But I’d say I’m a grounded realist. I’m not one of those dreamers, with my head in the clouds, I’m very much about making things happen in the here and now.

    What are you working on now?
    At the moment I’m working with my band (no name yet). I’m a bass guitarist and backing singer. Right now, we’re reworking some of our songs to fit in with our management company’s requests. We retain artistic control over our work, but they share with us what will sell – so we are adapting our lyrics accordingly.

    This isn’t making us any money yet, so I’m playing in a few different bands on a variety of gigs to get the money to do the other stuff. It’s invaluable experience of performing in front of different audiences. The bands I work actually consist of the same people as the main band, but we play these gigs under various different names, as we sometimes have to play covers on gigs that we don’t want our brand to be necessarily known for.

    What has been your journey to what you are doing now?
    I started playing the trumpet when I was really young. My twin sister started playing piano when we were five or six. I was jealous, and chose to play the trumpet. I was classically trained up until about the age of 16.

    As time went on, I was less and less interested in it though. At the age of 11 I picked up a guitar and fell in love. I taught myself all the way until I was about 23, and then did my professional development certificate in the guitar.

    I finished my A-levels (high school diploma) when I was 18. I wanted to go to music school, but my parents didn’t think it was a good idea. So I went to study law. I did this for a while, but didn’t enjoy it, so I left before I finished, and persuaded my parents that music school was the right place for me. They were supportive, but I had to get the money myself to go. So I got a job to save up for music school, and started playing in bands on the side.

    The job I started with was working for a clothes company. I did well, and got promoted often. Everyone thought I’d give up music at some point. About a year ago, when the band was getting a lot of interest from the industry heads, I decided that I had to make a choice – as neither path was really going to succeed when I had to devote time to the other. Music won. I took a massive pay cut, moved out of London, and away from my girlfriend to Essex, where the band is based. It’s turned out to be more than a full-time job, but I love it.

    When I first started playing in bands, I was a lead singer, but eventually decided that what I really liked was being a bass player. A few years ago I put my details up on loads of band-related websites. I got over 100 responses from bands interested in hearing me play. I chose a few I liked, and auditioned for them. I really liked this one, and took the job when it was offered to me. I travelled back and forth from London every day (after working a full day at my clothing job) for over a year before going into it full time.

    Did you have any insecurities, questions, doubts when you made your choice?
    Massive and still do. I’m working at this to achieve security, towards someone actually paying us to do this. I’ve spent many a sleepless night wondering about what I’m doing, and especially wondering if it’s worth the social sacrifices – most gigs are on Friday and Saturday nights, so I don’t see my friends that often.

    But I know many people who work 9 to 5 – and basically live for the weekend. I did that and hated it. I guess I’m a rebel in my own way. I can’t stand that way of thinking or living, I just want to do what I want.

    A big turning point for me in all this was losing my father and loads of relatives in a short space of time. My father’s death especially got me thinking that something could happen to me at any point, I’ve got to do what I want now or I’ll regret it.

    Even to this day, when someone asks me what I do, I still feel weird saying “I’m a musician”. Some people even ask: “No, what do you really do?”

    How are you feeling now? How do you see the future?
    I feel great, but tired (we’re putting in a lot of hours right now). And I’m nervous, as it’s never a sure thing. This is one of the toughest industries we’re trying to crack, and only very few people actually succeed.

    But I feel proud of what I’ve achieved so far, would love to go all the way and will put everything I have into trying to make that happen. I’m being optimistic, and it helps that there are a lot of positive people around us supporting us, but at the same time I’m mentally prepared for any eventuality.

    Would you do anything differently?
    Yes, I would have started music at 18 – it took me to my mid 20s before I really got into it. I’m 28 now.

    What advice would you give to other people in similar situations as you were in?
    * Be realistic, not for everyone, but you owe it to yourself to try.
    * There’s always a way if you really want it.
    * Don’t get into financial trouble – find a way to get paid doing what you want to do and put everything into it
    * You can’t be precious – you get criticised a lot - so it’s definitely not for the faint hearted!

    As a kid - what did you want to be when you grew up? What was work for you?
    I think I wanted to be a policeman. I never wanted to be a shining rock start, that’s for sure. Bass guitarists don’t really have the glamour role – we’re usually the most sensible and grounded ones. I mean how many bass guitarists can you name?

    I wanted to be a professional musician, to play music as a career and make money from when I was about 18.

    Both of my parents were very hard-working – my mom is a self-employed lawyer, and my dad was a self-employed engineer. They worked all hours and incredibly hard. We used to work for them during our school holidays. We had a little farm, so we also had to take care of horses and feed the other animals. So we had a strong work ethic from a very young age.

    It hasn’t been easy – and I often wonder if this is the right thing to do. But then we get on stage, and it’s fabulous. And the record company likes what we’re doing – so it’s really feeling like it’s all worth it.

       
     
  • Seven Steps to Better Health
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    In the first Escape Stories in 2006 I interviewed Sanna Anderson, an aspiring nutritionist. Her journey continues, and she's now offering a free e- book on "Seven Steps to Better Health" for anyone filling in her health survey.

    It only takes a few minutes - and if health is one of your priorities for 2007, it could help you start putting your ideas into action already!

       
     
  • Spring 2007 Events
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    Working in... CSR (teleclass)

    Tuesday, January 30, 2007
    8-9 pm UK time
    From your home (or wherever you are calling from)

    Do you have dreams of working with CSR? Or perhaps you’re just curious about the field and what people actually do?

    Talking to people working in the field is best ways to find out more, but we know from experience that people find it hard to find the time and nerve to pick up the phone.

    This convenient evening teleclass will connect you with 2 experts in the field in a just 60 minute phone call. Speakers to be confirmed.

    If you are interested, email info@escape-club.org and will send you information as soon it's all confirmed.

    Meet Other Careershifters!

    Wednesday, February 21, 2007 and Wednesday, March 21, 2007
    6-9 pm
    Central London venue (TBC)

    Meet other Careershifters, find out what other people are doing for their careers changes, get motivated by people who've already started their change and find out about resources that could help you get to where you want to go (including helping you figure out what that might be)!

       
     
  • Get A Coach to Help You Escape!
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    Have you progressed in 2006 as much as you wanted to with regards to your career change? If not, find out how coaching could help you make 2007 the year that your career got the jumpstart it deserves!

    I found the coaching invaluable. Satu has a great ability to listen and a wealth of information resources. The result is the right information, in the right place, at the right time-that’s what made my escape a lot easier.- C Kane, Training & Development Coordinator, London

    If you are wanting to escape, but are feeling stuck or like you could use a helpful non-judgemental hand, email me for a f*ree consultation to find out what coaching is and how it could help you in your particular situation.

    I found Satu’s coaching instrumental in bringing a sense of focus and direction to my career. With the coaching now finished I can see even more clearly what a worthwhile investment in time, effort and money it was. It has saved me years of career heartache, unhappiness and not fulfilling my potential. It is a commitment to do this – but I truly believe that it has been (and will continue to be) beneficial in helping me achieve what I desire from my working life.- Ben Morris, Business Planning Manager

       
     
  • What I Do
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    You know how some successful professionals stay in jobs that don't fulfill them waiting for the perfect job to land on their lap, or to have enough money to leave and do what they 'really' want to do

    Which means that they have some good days, but most days they aren't living or working to their potential, and start being more and more unhappy with their work, which then reflect on their lives

    What I do is help these people create an escape plan doing what they want (not what they feel other people want)

    Which means they have clarity about the type of work that would bring them the satisfaction they crave for - and a plan to get the work too!

    The benefit of this is not only increased job satisfaction, but a sense of focus, direction and purpose - and overall happiness with the lives they are leading

      If you'd like to know more, contact me for a f*ree consultation
     
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